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How to Be Rich and Happy

It’s been a while since I did a book review, hasn’t it?

When How to Be Rich and Happy by Tim Brownson and John P. Strelecky first came out, I thought it probably wasn’t for me.  Not that I was rich or particularly happy.  In fact, I was between jobs and slightly miserable.  In hindsight, I should have bought the damn book the instant it came out.  Stubborn, I think, is the word we’re looking for here.

Let’s get clear on the boys’ definition of rich.  It’s brilliant.  We’re not talking Donald Trumpesque investment advice.  They don’t even assign a dollar value to it.  Their definition of rich? Having the ability to do whatever you want, whenever you want.  Now that’s a richness I can totally live with.

From there, you work with the book to figure out what’s most important to you.  I was surprised to find that my TOP priority was happiness.  If asked, I would have said freedom.  But, see, there’s this exercise where you make a list and then use a formula to figure it out.  It’s kinda wacky, but it’s fun.  And then you know.  There’s also a list of  attributes to avoid at all costs.  Because they will make you miserable, no matter how much you think you need the job.  Yup, coulda used that knowledge a whole lot sooner, too.

There are practical tips for figuring out how to maximize your happy richness for time spent.  A real, practical formula for living your ideal life.

And I think that’s what I like best about this book – it’s not about what the authors think will make you happy.  They don’t actually care what makes you happy.  I think they’re quite busy spending their time on their own happiness.  As you work through the exercises, you will figure out what gets your own heart beating faster and how to incorporate more of it into your life right now, no matter what your situation (see, it’s all about getting more rich and happy minutes into your day…)

I don’t want to oversell it.  It’s never good to make an author blush.  But it’s definitely worth the price of admission.  And there’s a bonus.  For every copy of How to be Rich and Happy they sell, Tim and John are donating a copy to someone who really needs it.  How cool is that?  Plus, if you head on over right now, Tim’s having a bit of a sale. 

Thanks guys!  Sorry to take so long to fall in love!

Announcing: Smalltopia

small-square-ad-for-smalltopiaI was very excited when I saw that Tammy Strobel of RowdyKittens has published another e-book.

Smalltopia is for everyone who is interested in generating their own income.  Bloggers, freelancers, artists….  It’s full of tips on how to make a living online.

Much of the focus is on downsizing your expenses, starting small and manageable and building from there.  I bought the book yesterday afternoon and read it straight through.  We even postponed dinner, which hardly ever happens in this house!

My small and manageable office space

And after reading all the hints and tips and how-to’s as well as the inspirational stories from the likes of Leo Babauta, Chris Guillebeau and Everett Bogue I felt really excited and empowered.  Like maybe these ideas that Alan and I have been kicking around aren’t so crazy after all.  And maybe quitting my job last month because the stress was making my gallbladder swell up alarmingly (it’s coming out in two weeks – I envision the surgical team showing up in bomb disposal gear) was less of a cop-out and possibly, maybe a decent career move.

There are even sections for people who aren’t quite ready to chuck the 9 to 5 just yet, ways that you can try out a new path while still going into work every day, steps you can put in place to make your transition a whole lot smoother than mine has been.

I’ve decided to become and affiliate seller for this book – it’s just that good.  So if you’re interested, please click on the Smalltopia book cover in my side bar.  If you decide to buy, a portion of the price goes to supporting HappySimple.

 

Book Review – The Big Leap

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Life is great, isn’t it?  It isn’t, you say?  Have you ever wondered why?  Have you ever wondered if it couldn’t be maybe a bit better?  If you couldn’t be living a somewhat bigger life than you are now?

The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks will help you to live the  great big life of your dreams. 

My favourite part is the beginning, where he explains that we all hold ourselves back at one time or another, explains why that is and gives ways to stop doing it.

Finding yourself in a frequent state of worry, or compelled to speak to your spouse in a shouty voice, are ways we hold ourselves back from our big dreams.  The time spent worrying or arguing is time not spent moving on your dreams.  And once you can look at it that way, it’s so much easier to stop the worry and the arguments and get on with the good stuff.

If you feel like your life is a bit of a grade-school report card (could do better), I’d recommend giving The Big Leap a read.

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Celebration Friday – Reading in Bed

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It’s been cold and wet here the last few days, so in between bouts of blog maintenance and job hunting, I’ve been curling up in bed with some really good library books.

I’d like to note that in my ongoing progress towards minimalism, I have decided to stop buying books.  I know.  I nearly had to resuscitate Alan when I told him.  We were in  a bookstore at the time, just browsing.  And I managed to make it all the way out the door without buying anything.  My house is already breathing a little easier.  And the local library, I like to think, is quite enjoying my custom.

There’s just something so cozy about fluffing up the pillows and lying down to read.  Time suspends and you’re lost in the pages.  And whether it’s a novel or a piece of social commentary, the enjoyment factor goes decidedly up when you add pillows and blankies.

I think you’d like the two I read most recently.  First was How to Live Dangerously by Warwick Cairns.  In it, he basically tells us that we’re worrying about all the wrong things and why they have such a grip on our imaginations, how fear works in our brains, and what things we might want to worry about, just a little more.

It’s a wonderful, clear manifesto for those of us who are tired of being told we need to be more afraid and take fewer risks.

After I got back from my trip to Africa in the spring, I was talking to one of my relatives who seemed worried about me.  Glad I was home safely and had got it out of my system.   I explained to her that this wasn’t the end of my travels or taking chances.  That I don’t take undue risks, but I will continue to go places and do things that will seem unsafe to many.  Because I want to see and experience as much of the world as I can.  Because I’d rather die doing that than sitting quietly at home, waiting for my colon  to kill me.

If that explanation makes sense to you, then I recommend How to Live Dangerously.

The other one I read was Not Buying It, My Year Without Shopping by Judith Levine.  It’s a few years old but certainly not outdated.  In 2004 Judith and her partner, Paul, made the decision to only buy essentials and nothing else.  She kept a diary and in the book is very honest about her thoughts and feelings around her own consumption and what it felt like to step back from the marketplace for an entire year.

In fact, with the current recession swirling around us all, I think this book may be more of the minute now than when it was published in 2006.

Of course, even the longest afternoon of reading in bed has to end.  When I finally got up and waddled to my computer, I found websites for both of these authors.  And blogs! Warwick’s and Judith’s! That you can subscribe to!  Just like you can subscribe to mine!

Hope you all manage to find some quiet time this weekend, to read or snooze or just daydream.  It’s those moments that are truly worth celebrating.

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